I loved my ex girlfriend?

well do what she's doin, in your mind think about the break up, pick at every point where it seemed like she's the problem, this will replace the sadness with anger, find a new girl, one that is better than her in everyway.. and your on your way, i'm speakin from experience here as i went thru the same stuff as u, i was with my ex for 2 1/2 years, she tried to blame me, but i saw holes in her stories, i remember the stuff that she messed up our relationship... and i feel better knowing that it's her loss